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TOP REASONS WHY MEN CHEAT

Why do Men Cheat?

Let’s face it. Being faithful to another is one of the hardest commitments to keep, especially for a man. Our DNA is programmed to spread the seed for genetic survival like a time bomb. Yeah, that’s clear, but we’re gay! We don’t actually have sex to procreate. We’ve asked a 100 men to tell us if they’ve ever cheated and why they did and compiled a nifty little list.

A little over half of all the men we interviewed have admitted to have cheated on their partner at least once, though most of them asked us to re-define the term cheating.

Ego Boost
There is no better feeling than being hit on by a hottie - especially if it doesn’t happen all that often. When relationships get stale and your partner no longer notices how attractive you are (saying that you are still cute) is a big downer. A little attention from someone else will definitely make you think about all the naughty things you can get away with.


Fallen Out of Love
Perhaps you just cheat on your man to experience something new. Sometimes when relationships have existed for so long and things feel so right but the love is no longer there - it is hard to let go! This one can be resolved if you can recapture your attraction to each other. Communication is key as for anything else in life. Some couples stay together for decades with an “open” understanding. If that works for you - then hey! No need to worry about cheating husbands.


Sex Addiction
Well, this one is a no-brainer. You should have figured out if your BF is a sexual compulsive! Almost half of the men we interviewed admitted to having some sort of sexual addiction. Always needing to have it and preferably not from the same mouth. This really isn’t your fault - so maybe you should look at the situation and join in on the fun?

Attention
Even though most guys won’t admit it, they love attention. They want their lovers at their beckon call when they want them to. If you’re just plain too busy with your work and life and ignore your BF he just might find attention from a “moister” more attentive source... If you know what I mean.

Loss of Attraction
Let’s face the facts. You’ve gotten old and fat. We don’t want to give you a complex but if you’re wondering why your man is getting it from everyone else but you - you should think about hitting the gym? Perhaps when he met you- you were an adonis and now your a donut. Come on now! There is one question I ask myself in front of the mirror in the morning to know if I’m sexually worthy... Would I have sex with “That”?? I know this all sounds vain, and you’re right. We’re not talking about love here buddy!

Thrill
When guys lack excitement in their lives, at home and at work - and their relationships have become routine... They tend to look for something thrilling to bring the sense of adventure back to their lives. A little bathhouse action wouldn’t hurt... I can’t even tell you how many times that has crossed my mind! A bj at the mensroom at the club would be nice - All about adventure and getting caught. Some men even find it thrilling to be caught by their partner doing the nasty!



Boredom
Once again, another big reason why men cheat is because they have nothing better to do! Guys are often online with headless photos looking for a nice crotch to ride! Crude as it may be, this is fun for some and we all know what horniness and boredom combined will cause! Heck, why not... What else do you have to do?


Fights and Disagreements
I guess whether we are 10 or 40, boys will always be boys. Try not to piss off your lover so much with silly little things - Pick your battles! Boys love to get back at one another and what better way to do that than to get your rocks off? Remember men think about sex every 6 seconds and that’s all it will take for him to do something offensively naughty!

OH, MONOGAMY!
Society have been preaching monogamy for ages, to separate us from animals - In this day and age, the lines between sex and love have become blurred and are not completely related anymore. Relationships exist on either both or one of these common links to attraction. Many will argue what SEX has to do with LOVE? Especially for Gay people since it has nothing to do with procreation. Our moral upbringing is the only thing suggesting the ties between the two. We may never have the answer to the link between love and sex but we know one thing for sure - Men are men. Get used to it!

Without any judgement on cheaters, we suggest an open discussion before doing something naughty and you’ll be surprised to see that a hell of a lot of headaches could be avoided and in some cases a threeway may even be rewarded!

 

 
   
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